Tag: think different

A Tale of Two Singletons: Part One – You Don’t Know What’s Good for You

Posted on March 22nd, 2016

We all have that amazing friend who’s perpetually single, and we just can’t work out why.  You know the type: she’s smart, brilliant, beautiful and tons of fun. She dips her toes in the dating pool – perhaps she’s even the type who always seems to have the next date lined up. And yet, nothing […]

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What Does Your Body Say About You?

Posted on October 29th, 2015

This article was inspired by an article I recently read at MindBodyGreen. I started thinking about all the things our bodies can say about us. While the article above primarily focuses on health issues that can be indicated by various physical signs, I started thinking about the things our bodies say about us; and more importantly, […]

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Accept What You Can’t Change, Change What You Can’t Accept

Posted on August 19th, 2015

How much time did you waste in your last relationship hoping your partner would change? How much time did you waste complaining about the situation — but doing nothing about it? Perhaps you stayed with your ex for far longer than you should have done, just willing things to get better. Perhaps you’re angry with yourself, […]

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Things To Never, Ever Say To Someone Going Through A Divorce

Posted on June 9th, 2015

It happens to us all At some point in our lives, most of us will go through a divorce, or at least a very painful breakup. Most of us will also experience being a shoulder to cry on when it happens to someone we love. So when someone close to you tells you they are […]

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Are You Trapping Yourself In A Divorce Disaster?

Posted on June 1st, 2015

Brutal breakups Every breakup is hard. Every breakup hurts. But there are some times when a breakup is so all-consumingly awful that it’s hard to do anything but wallow in the agony of it. A vindictive, vengeful partner can add tyranny to a situation that is already fraught. These are the people that use threats, […]

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Divorce Can Bring Out The Worst In Us. Don’t Let It Turn You Toxic!

Posted on May 15th, 2015

To say that divorce is a nasty time is a serious understatement. Your world is crashing down around you. You’re feeling hurt and betrayed by the person you thought you’d spend the rest of your life with. You’re angry and upset. You sure as hell don’t feel like being mature and understanding right now. Trouble is, […]

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Don’t Do It! Why You Are Not YOU In a Trauma

Posted on April 13th, 2015

I’m still chuckling from a hilarious call with one of my Angels-in-Training. We could not stop laughing about the things we have to do to keep our groups on track on the 21-day Emotional Freedom program. Just the other day someone posted that they were ‘just settling into the garden chilling enjoying a beer’. I […]

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Feeling Valentine’s Day Anxiety? 7 Steps to Release and Enjoy the Game Again

Posted on February 20th, 2015

Has Valentine’s Day last week given you that lonely, anxious feeling? Well stop it. It’s just a game, and here’s how to remember how to enjoy it. Around this time of year being lonely drives some people into total anxiety about finding the one. The thing is, finding a life partner isn’t about being all […]

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Are You Choosing Your Life Or Just Surviving?

Posted on December 15th, 2014

Old stuck emotions held you down, unable to rise above survival mode or think beyond it. When you don’t face those emotions and work to release them permanently you’re just stuck struggling to deal with them day by day, while also trying to operate a normal life and survive.

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The first year after a divorce – what to do??

Posted on November 3rd, 2011

Here are some tips to deal with some of the longer-term challenges that are certain to come your way. The first year  Buy a new calendar and diary and don’t mark old anniversaries or birthdays.  Keep working with the ETHICS and 7 Foundations of Transformation within the naked divorce 21-day program for a minimum of […]

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