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January, 2017 | The Naked Divorce
Stop complaining when life isn’t fair

12. Stop complaining when life isn’t fair

Life isn’t fair so people will talk about you behind your back and be horrible even if you don’t deserve it and have always been nice and supportive to them.

This is because most people will only do whatever they do to forward things for themselves so don’t expect that your good deeds and actions for others will always come back to you. Simply do your good deeds and actions for your own reasons and not to get anything back – this way you won’t be disappointed or constantly feel hard done by.

Think you can take on the challenge and become far more powerful this year? I know you can.

Let this be a wonderful, empowering 2017!

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Stop gossiping

10. Stop gossiping

Never talk badly about other people.

Bored people talk about other people. Powerful people talk about the big games, projects and exciting things they are doing in their lives.

 

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Speak with power

8. Speak with power

Focus on making eye contact with people when you talk to them, lift your chin and speak in a clear audible voice.

Softly spoken people are very dominating to those around them as everyone needs to lean in to hear them. It’s subtle manipulative control vs. clear powerful behaviour.

 

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Stop just doing what you ‘feel’ like

6. Stop just doing what you ‘feel’ like

Powerful people don’t run their lives based on what they ‘feel’ like doing at any given moment.

Powerful people value their commitments and their agreements with themselves and others and when they don’t ‘feel’ like doing something they ignore those feelings and do what they agreed to do anyway.

 

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