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Trying to score points against your ex VS focusing on winning the overall game!
CHESS: Chess is a game of strategy and tactics, a game to take out your opponents pieces until you take them all and then attack their king.
This is in no way what break ups or divorce should ever be about but sadly enough it is the reality of so many couples today. Instead of focusing [...]
Death vs. Divorce – is our compassion balanced?
A question I stumbled across recently when someone asked, “Why don’t people show the same compassion to divorce as they do to death?” a question that has a very fine line in being right or wrong but a question none the less that can have very different views when looked at on the other side [...]
Instant Gratification BUT what IS best for me? PART II
As human beings we can tend to become fascinated by ourselves and our stories and can allow ourselves to become too self-indulgent and it can be destructive. As long as we recognise the vision of where we want and need to be and what it takes to get there, the time that you determine it [...]
Instant Gratification vs. a Long term Strategy… what’s best? PART I
Instant rewards and instant healing has a much nicer ring to it, then the words combined; LONG – TERM. However if waiting that particular extended time will further HELP in the long run it stirs the question if waiting is more worthwhile. But how do you determine what works best for you?
When associating this with [...]
NO FAULT DIVORCE – what does this mean to us?
The UK laws of divorce have not been reformed since their introduction in 1969. However there was a move and introduction to No – Fault Divorce shortly after 1970.
No-fault divorce is a divorce in which the dissolution of a marriage does not require a showing of wrong-doing by either party. Laws providing for no-fault divorce [...]
War of the Roses
The War of the Roses was a civil war in England. Where the thirty years of warfare were even more destructive to England than the Hundred Years war had been in the previous century.
With the Petty disputes that occur between partners throughout a Divorce these days it seems necessary to title this article with such [...]
