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Introducing… PHONE AND RANT! lol :)
WANT TO RANT AND RAVE? No Problem! You can!
Imagine a world where a compassionate interested person was ready to hear you rant about your day? Not exactly common and very rarely encouraged… It is more commonly drilled into our heads that having a rant and rave is inappropriate and unnecessary but sometimes; it’s exactly what you [...]
Should we fake it until we make it??
According to Mail Online there was an article written on “Why acting like you are in love can lead to the real thing” that if you want to feel in love, perhaps you should fake it until you make it.
The article suggested that if you behave in the way you want to be perceived by [...]
Short Term Emotion Avoidance Tactics – the thief of time in healing
There is a thief of time when one is healing – something which takes all our effort and energy and makes us think we are moving on. It’s a trickery of sorts and whilst you are focused on applying Short Term Emotion Avoidance Tactics, you will never heal from your divorce or from anything. Watch [...]
Rise of the DIY divorce…
Couples who are somewhat impoverished are causing court chaos by representing themselves in the midst of cutbacks. According to the Daily mail; the recession and upcoming cuts to legal aid are putting immense pressure on family courts as these couples increasingly represent themselves.
I will therefore write a little post of pure commentary on this issue [...]
Introducing the Tantrum Club!
IT’S TIME TO THROW A TANTRUM!
Women; since generations ago, have been told to be polite, ladylike, calm and collected and in the midst of struggle to rise above and push through. But what’s the definition of pushing through? Some people are content to spend hours rationalising whether their anger, frustration or sadness is constructive in [...]
Are you holding on to your divorce suffering?
For many of us there is a moral dilemma with divorce: do we take the steps to move on or do we stay stuck and suffer? For some, moving on may feel ‘wrong’. Consider that if you are staying stuck in your pain, something else is going on – take a look at this video…
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