Old stuck emotions held you down, unable to rise above survival mode or think beyond it. When you don’t face those emotions and work to release them permanently you’re just stuck struggling to deal with them day by day, while also trying to operate a normal life and survive.
How can you give so much but feel so empty and angry?
Because if you’re a martyr, you’re selfish and you’re not giving freely.
You tell others you are, but you’re not. And because of this you’re suffering in silence… and causing it all yourself.
The motivation of a martyr is to sacrifice themselves for someone else or [...]
Let me tell you a bit about one of my clients, I’ll call her Molly.
Molly came to see me towards the end of 2009. She’d been divorced for six years and in all that time hadn’t stopped obsessing about what her ex-husband was up to. In the beginning, she would talk about only one thing…
Thanksgiving is less than a few days away and you’re planning a traditional holiday dinner, which includes a golden turkey as the showpiece of the meal. Although the Mercy for Animals Foundation conducted an undercover investigation on the abuse these birds are subjected to – it is NOTHING compared to the amount of stress and anxiety [...]
Do you have to follow some little daily ritual or your whole day goes pear-shaped?
Then stop for a second. And think about it. Actually think about it.
Your life being great is not dependent on getting out of bed with your right foot first. Or checking your daily angel card or wearing a lucky slipper or [...]
Are you always saying “I’m fine” and resisting support?
It’s so interesting that the people who struggle the most and need the most help in life, usually don’t see it. They’re the people who push help and support away.
They think needing support is weakness. That even admitting you need help is weakness.
Do you know someone like [...]